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Do they know how it feel?

Do our brothers and/or sisters really feel what their older sister or brother really want them to be?
Do they really understand that we (older brothers) do not want them to be astray?
Do they really care on our feelings?
Do they really believe in what we advise to them every time they commit fault and which may cause them harm?
Do they really think that this undertakings, advices and hard works are made all because of them?
Do they really take seriously their education which our parents always stress out to be good at?
Do they really see their future without our help?
Do they really know how to handle Life without the help of other members of the family?
Do they really try to suffocate us with their naughty and unstoppable actions? or

DO THEY REALLY LOVE US?

These are the questions revolved around me yesterday night when I and my brother have a physical contact and resulted to the breaking of our old/antique Aparador’s big mirror. Before this, weeks ago, we have talked about his vices and advise him not to do it again, not just once but many times my father and I guided him to do good and be good. But he never internalized what we have advised, he didn’t even care of my (old) parents feelings in every bad words he thrown back to them every time my parents try to straighten his curve ways.




this is the output of my anger which lead to the destruction of our old Mirror.

It was yesterday, when my pail of patience to my brother had evaporated and causing me to break the said Mirror with my naked fist. My hand was full of red liquid coming out from my inside, i then rushed to my sister’s house and asked for an aid. At first, my target was his body, but even though he was like that, i cannot hurt him because his my brother. My older sister even said, “Why do you hurt yourself, you do not deserve it”.


screenshots of my aided fist, but before this, my hand has full of blood.

Lord God, please help me in raising my brother and guiding him in the right path.

PS: When i am about to do my assignment, i saw this letter inside my bag. I do not know if i can forgive him right now, but i do believe time heals all wounds, maybe in the right time.

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September 18, 2008 - Posted by | family, happenings, personal, Writeups

4 Comments »

  1. hey bro, gonna try to do this one by one..

    Do they really care on our feelings?
    > i think so, but sometimes kids their age feel or wants to feel that theyre in-control of their world.. (we all have a world of our own sumtyms,ryt?)

    Do they really believe in what we advise to them every time they commit fault and which may cause them harm?
    > SOMETYMS THEY GOTTA LEARN THE HARD WAY. WE’RE NOT ALWAYS GONNA BE THERE FOR THEM, ALL WE CAN TELL THEM ARE THE POSSIBLE CONSEQUENCES OF THEIR ACTIONS, AND LET THEM LEARN THE HARD WAY IF THEY WANT. AT LEAST YOU CAN TELL YOUR SELF THAT YOUVE DONE YOUR PART AS A BROTHER AND AS SOMEONE WHO CARES FOR HIM. ITS GONNA BE UP TO HIM TO LEARN IN LIFE.

    Do they really think that this undertakings, advices and hard works are made all because of them?
    > THEYRE YOUNG, NOT IGNORANT. YOU CAN TELL THEM WHAT EVER ADVICES YOU WANT, ANYTYM OF THE DAY, 24/7 NON-STOP, BUT IN THE END THEY WILL STILL BE THE ONE TO CHOOSE THEIR ACTIONS. BUT AT THE SAME TIME, HOPEFULLY REMEMBERING EVERY SINGLE ADVICES YOUVE TOLD THEM.

    Do they really take seriously their education which our parents always stress out to be good at?
    > SOMETIMES YOU MAY BE PRESSURING HIM TOO MUCH IN THAT ASPECT. JUST REMIND HIM THAT YEAH, YOURE ALL WORKING HARD JUST FOR HIM TO GO TO SCHOOL, BUT YOURE NOT ALWAYS GONNA BE THERE FOR HIM. SO HE HAS TO TAKE PART IN LEARNING. BECAUSE AFTER ALL, ITS HIS LIFE HE’S GONNA LIVE, AND IF HE WANTS TO SURVIVE IN THIS WORLD, HE HAS TO STRIVE. AND REMIND HIM THAT EDUCATION IS VERY IMPORTANT. ALWAYS REMIND HIM THAT.

    Do they really see their future without our help?
    > PROBABLY. LIKE IVE SAID, KIDS THOSE AGE, TEND TO THINK THAT THEY HAVE A WORLD OF THEIR OWN. BECAUSE THEY ARE STILL NOT IN THE “REAL WORLD” WHERE YOU HAVE TO STRUGGLE TO SURVIVE, WAIT TILL THEY GET TO THE PART THAT THEY WILL REALIZE THAT IN ORDER FOR THEM TO LIVE, THEY SHOULD WORK HARD.. OF COURSE YOU HAVE TO MAKE THEM REALIZE THAT ALSO. BECAUSE, NOW WVERYTHING IS LAID PERFECTLY FOR THEM.. THEY HAVE NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT. THEY HAVE FOOD, SHELTER, ALLOWANCE, ETC. BUT THEY DIDNT EARN IT, YOU AND YOUR PARENTS GAVE IT TO THEM.. SO HE’S KINDA IN THE SITUATION THAT HE’S WORRY-FREE. HE’LL GET PASS THAT, EVENTUALLY..

    Do they really know how to handle Life without the help of other members of the family?
    > THEY THINK THEY DO. BUT JUST CONTINUE TO REMIND THEM AND GIVE ADVICE. WHETHER THEY TAKE IT OR NOT. THEY MAY MAKE U FEEL THAT THEYRE NOT LISTENING, BUT I ASSURE YOU, YOURE PLANTING IT ALREADY IN HIS MIND. ITS JUST THERE WHEN THE NEED ARISES. HE’S GONNA REALIZE THAT.. DONT WORRY.

    **NO MORE SPACE.. NEXT COMMENT. 🙂

    Comment by TriskelionACEE | September 18, 2008 | Reply

  2. Do they really try to suffocate us with their naughty and unstoppable actions?
    > I DONT THINK SO, MAYBE ITS BECAUSE THEY FEEL CHALLENGED WHENEVER THEY SEE U ANGRY OR PISSED.. SO JUST STAY CALM. I BET HE’S GONNA LEARN THING THE HARD WAY..

    * AND BTW BRO, I THINK HE ALREADY REALIZES HIS ACTIONS, BY THE NOTE HE LEFT. I THINK HE MAY BE STUBBORN AT TIMES, BUT I THINK THE NOTE WAS HIS WAY TO LET YOU KNOW THAT HE’S SORRY AND THAT HE ALSO CARES ABOUT WHAT YOU FEEL. TRY TO TALK TO HIM SERIOUSLY, ONE ON ONE. MAYBE YOU CAN UNDERSTAND MORE BOUT HIM AND VICE VERSA. FIND TIME TO TALK, OR IF YOURE NOT READY, TRY TO LEAVE HIM A NOTE TELLING HIM WHAT YOU WANT TO TELL HIM. ITS A GUD REMINDER COZ HE CAN LOOK AT IT AND READ IT WHENEVER POSSIBLE. (I BET ITS GONNA BE A VERY LONG NOTE.)

    SO THERE, HOPE YOU GUYS FIX THINGS AS SOON AS POSSIBLE. 🙂 GOTTA CHANGE THE APARADOR MIRROR ALSO. HAHA. TAKE CARE BRO.

    Comment by TriskelionACEE | September 18, 2008 | Reply

  3. thanks bro!

    Comment by tanom | September 19, 2008 | Reply

  4. its hard to be the panganay at times, especially when your younger siblings tend to misinterpret all the concerns that you’ve shown. well, we really cant expect them to grow in a snap, the chances are bleak, but time will come, and they will realize who the real loser is if they wont listen to your concern. anyways, I am hoping for the best for you bro.

    Comment by daniel jr | September 30, 2008 | Reply


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